Would You Rather Questions for Couples: 90 Fun

Looking for a delightful way to deepen your connection with your partner? Dive into these would you rather questions for couples that are perfect for sparking meaningful conversations and adding a dash of fun to your time together. Whether you’re on a cozy date night at home or planning a weekend getaway, these questions will help you learn more about each other and create lasting memories. Check out this list of this or that questions for couples for even more inspiration!

Dates & Food

• Would you rather have a fancy dinner at a 5-star restaurant or a picnic in the park?
• Would you rather cook a meal together or order takeout?
• Would you rather go to a wine tasting or a coffee shop crawl?
• Would you rather have a dessert date or a savory appetizer tasting?
• Would you rather have a candlelit dinner at home or dine out at a new restaurant?
• Would you rather have a food truck feast or a gourmet buffet?
• Would you rather try a new cuisine every week or stick to your favorite dishes?
• Would you rather have a chocolate dessert or a fruit-based treat?
• Would you rather have a picnic on the beach or in the mountains?
• Would you rather have a themed dinner night or a potluck with friends?
• Would you rather have a sushi dinner or a pizza party?
• Would you rather have a cheese and charcuterie board or a dessert platter?
• Would you rather have a homemade brunch or a breakfast at a cafe?
• Would you rather have a seafood feast or a vegetarian banquet?
• Would you rather have a dessert tasting menu or a cheese tasting?

Travel & Weekends

• Would you rather go on a beach vacation or a mountain retreat?
• Would you rather explore a new city or relax at a countryside cottage?
• Would you rather have a weekend getaway or a week-long vacation?
• Would you rather travel by car or by train?
• Would you rather go on a cruise or a road trip?
• Would you rather visit a historical city or a modern metropolis?
• Would you rather travel to a tropical island or a snowy wonderland?
• Would you rather go on a safari or a diving expedition?
• Would you rather explore a new country every year or revisit your favorite places?
• Would you rather have a weekend camping trip or a luxury hotel stay?
• Would you rather go on a cultural tour or an adventure tour?
• Would you rather travel solo or with your partner?
• Would you rather have a weekend at a spa or a hiking adventure?
• Would you rather go on a food tour or a historical tour?
• Would you rather have a weekend at a cabin in the woods or a beach house?

Home Life

• Would you rather have a cozy night in or a night out on the town?
• Would you rather decorate your home together or let each other decorate their own space?
• Would you rather have a movie night or a game night?
• Would you rather have a DIY project day or a day of relaxation?
• Would you rather have a garden or a balcony with plants?
• Would you rather have a pet dog or a pet cat?
• Would you rather have a house in the suburbs or an apartment in the city?
• Would you rather have a fireplace or a pool?
• Would you rather have a home library or a home theater?
• Would you rather have a kitchen island or a breakfast nook?
• Would you rather have a walk-in closet or a large bathroom?
• Would you rather have a home office or a guest room?
• Would you rather have a sunroom or a game room?
• Would you rather have a pool table or a ping pong table?
• Would you rather have a hot tub or a sauna?

Love & Little Things

• Would you rather receive a love letter or a surprise gift?
• Would you rather have a romantic dinner at home or a night out at a fancy restaurant?
• Would you rather cuddle on the couch or take a walk together?
• Would you rather have a surprise date or a planned date?
• Would you rather have a weekend camping trip or a weekend at a luxury hotel?
• Would you rather have a picnic in the park or a dinner at a rooftop restaurant?
• Would you rather have a day at the spa or a day of adventure sports?
• Would you rather have a quiet evening with a book or a lively evening with friends?
• Would you rather have a day of pampering or a day of adventure?
• Would you rather have a surprise weekend getaway or a planned vacation?
• Would you rather have a day of shopping or a day of hiking?
• Would you rather have a day of volunteering or a day of leisure?
• Would you rather have a day of exploring a new city or a day of relaxing at home?
• Would you rather have a day of trying new foods or a day of sticking to your favorites?
• Would you rather have a day of learning a new skill or a day of perfecting an old one?

Future Plans

• Would you rather live in a bustling city or a quiet town?
• Would you rather have children or have pets?
• Would you rather have a big family or a small family?
• Would you rather travel the world or settle down in one place?
• Would you rather have a career you love or a job that pays well?
• Would you rather work from home or work in an office?
• Would you rather have a house in the country or an apartment in the city?
• Would you rather have a retirement plan or live in the moment?
• Would you rather have a life of adventure or a life of stability?
• Would you rather have a life of travel or a life of community?
• Would you rather have a life of learning or a life of doing?
• Would you rather have a life of giving or a life of receiving?
• Would you rather have a life of creativity or a life of practicality?
• Would you rather have a life of simplicity or a life of complexity?
• Would you rather have a life of tradition or a life of innovation?

Playful & Silly

• Would you rather be a cat or a dog?
• Would you rather be able to fly or read minds?
• Would you rather be a superhero or a wizard?
• Would you rather be a pirate or a ninja?
• Would you rather be a mermaid or a fairy?
• Would you rather be a robot or an alien?
• Would you rather be a chef or a musician?
• Would you rather be a painter or a sculptor?
• Would you rather be a dancer or a singer?
• Would you rather be a comedian or an actor?
• Would you rather be a teacher or a student?
• Would you rather be a doctor or a nurse?
• Would you rather be a firefighter or a police officer?
• Would you rather be a pilot or an astronaut?
• Would you rather be a farmer or a fisherman?

How to run it as a couples poll

Transform these would you rather questions for couples into a fun poll using the OXPoll poll maker (it’s free and requires no sign-up!). Simply create a poll, add your questions, and share it with your partner. It’s a fantastic way to engage in meaningful conversations and discover new things about each other. For more ideas, check out these fun poll questions to ask your friends.

Mornings & Routines

Start your day with these fun and insightful “Would You Rather” questions to learn more about each other’s morning habits and preferences.

• Would you rather wake up early and have a slow morning or sleep in and have a rushed morning?
• Would you rather have a hot breakfast or a cold breakfast?
• Would you rather start your day with a workout or with meditation and stretching?
• Would you rather have a shower in the morning or before bed?
• Would you rather have a quiet morning or start your day with music or a podcast?
• Would you rather have coffee or tea first thing in the morning?
• Would you rather have a big breakfast or a small one and snack throughout the morning?
• Would you rather have a morning routine or be spontaneous every day?
• Would you rather have a morning walk or an evening walk?
• Would you rather read the news or read a book in the morning?
• Would you rather have a tidy bedroom or a messy one in the morning?
• Would you rather have a quick breakfast or a leisurely one?
• Would you rather have a morning person or a night owl as a partner?
• Would you rather have a morning routine that includes a skincare regimen or one that includes a quick makeup routine?
• Would you rather have a morning where you can lounge in pajamas or one where you have to dress up?

Holidays & Seasons

Explore your favorite times of the year and how you like to celebrate with these “Would You Rather” questions.

• Would you rather spend Christmas at home or go on a holiday vacation?
• Would you rather have a summer or a winter holiday?
• Would you rather celebrate Halloween or Thanksgiving?
• Would you rather have a beach holiday or a mountain holiday?
• Would you rather have a holiday party at home or go out to a restaurant?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can relax or one where you can explore and adventure?
• Would you rather have a holiday with family or with friends?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can cook or one where you can order in?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can dress up or one where you can be casual?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can watch fireworks or one where you can watch a parade?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can go skiing or one where you can go swimming?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can visit a theme park or one where you can visit a museum?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can go to a concert or one where you can go to a play?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can go to a festival or one where you can go to a fair?
• Would you rather have a holiday where you can go to a zoo or one where you can go to a botanical garden?

Money & Home

Discuss your financial habits and home preferences with these “Would You Rather” questions.

• Would you rather have a big house or a small house?
• Would you rather have a house in the city or in the country?
• Would you rather have a modern or a traditional home?
• Would you rather have a home with a pool or a home with a garden?
• Would you rather have a home with a view or one with a lot of natural light?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of space or one that is cozy and intimate?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of windows or one with a lot of privacy?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of storage or one with a lot of open space?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of technology or one that is simple and low-tech?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of color or one that is neutral and calming?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of art or one that is minimalist?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of plants or one that is clean and uncluttered?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of books or one with a lot of electronics?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of pets or one with a lot of guests?
• Would you rather have a home with a lot of family photos or one with a lot of travel souvenirs?

Hobbies & Pets

Discover more about each other’s interests and furry friends with these “Would You Rather” questions.

• Would you rather have a dog or a cat as a pet?
• Would you rather have a pet that is active and playful or one that is calm and relaxed?
• Would you rather have a pet that is easy to care for or one that requires a lot of attention?
• Would you rather have a pet that is independent or one that is clingy?
• Would you rather have a pet that is quiet or one that is vocal?
• Would you rather have a pet that is hypoallergenic or one that is not?
• Would you rather have a pet that is low-maintenance or one that is high-maintenance?
• Would you rather have a pet that is social or one that is shy?
• Would you rather have a pet that is trainable or one that is not?
• Would you rather have a pet that is cuddly or one that is not?
• Would you rather have a pet that is playful or one that is lazy?
• Would you rather have a pet that is adventurous or one that is a homebody?
• Would you rather have a pet that is curious or one that is content?
• Would you rather have a pet that is protective or one that is friendly?
• Would you rather have a pet that is a rescue or one that is from a breeder?

Frequently asked questions

What are would you rather questions for couples?

Would you rather questions for couples are a fun way to spark conversations and learn more about each other’s preferences and values.

How can I use these questions in a poll?

You can use the OXPoll poll maker to create a poll with these questions and share it with your partner to get their responses.

Are these questions suitable for all couples?

Yes, these questions are designed to be wholesome and appropriate for all couples, whether they’re dating, married, or in a long-term relationship.

Can I customize the questions?

Absolutely! Feel free to modify the questions to better suit your relationship and interests.

What if my partner and I disagree on the answers?

Disagreements can lead to interesting discussions and help you understand each other better. Use these questions as a starting point for deeper conversations.